Choosing the Groomsmen for Your Wedding.

This should be the groom’s decision! You may have always envisioned your older brother standing alongside your future husband, but if your fiancé already has a gaggle of close-knit friends who he wants in the bridal party then you shouldn’t force the issue. You should certainly feel free to bring up the suggestion; you never know your fiancé might decide that it is one of the most brilliant suggestions he has ever heard.

If he’s just not close to your brother and doesn’t feel comfortable having him play such a vital role on the groom’s side then you should simply respect your fiancé’s wishes. You will quickly find that marriage is all about …