Save My Marriage Today
or Relationship Rescue.

First of all I believe strongly in the sanctity of marriage I am concerned about the apparent ease at which people who have promised at a wedding ceremony in front to others to love each other decide to leave their marriage partner.  "Till death do us part" (a quote from the UK traditional wedding ceremony — I don't know how widely it is used elsewhere) should still mean something today.

"For better or worse, in sickness and in health…"

Do you remember the love that brought the two of you together that day? Seems but a distant memory today?  Yet it need not be gone for ever!

Nobody ever said it would be easy and anyone who did was lying and certainly nothing prepares you for the total life change that you undertake in marriage. There is no manual that comes with the marriage license that tells you how to make things work. The couples I have discussed this issue with have also said the marriage preparation classes offered beforehand was either rejected or totally inappropriate to them in their circumstances.

Sometimes love will conquer all problems and disagreements and it is great when that happens.  But with marriage rates falling and divorce rates increasing at a phenomenal speed we are seeing a lot of couples breaking up and looking for the next in a long line of partners. Unsurprisingly the divorce rates for second and third time marriages are as high if not higher than for first time marriages.

The cost of weddings (and the cost of divorces) are also going up so it does not matter how much you spend on a super duper ceremony for your second wedding it does not alone mean you will find guaranteed success. So it was natural I would want to find a way of saving marriages that were on the verge of breaking up.

Nobody said marriage was ever going to be easy, and if they did, they were lying.

It’s perfectly normal in a marriage to have disagreements and times when things involve a little more effort than they used to. In an ideal world we would sit and talk about these changes and differences in a calm and rational manner, and establish an outcome and move on. Unfortunately things just do not always work like that. Its all too easy to get caught up in the moment and let things deteriorate to the point where you are both wondering why you are still in it.

As a website devoted to promoting romance (and someone who believes in what I write) I am disturbed by the growing number of relationships that break up.  I have also seen and read a number of books that are sold to try to stop the divorce that are — in my view — a total waste of money.  I needed to be able to find a book that would be able to save my marriage today.  Not one that told us what we should have done a couple of years earlier.

I had read too many save my marriage type books that MIGHT work in the early stages but lets face it for people who are willing to read this type of book it is usually well past that first stage and the relationship is moving towards serious problems. 

I started to despair of ever finding anything that combined the serious help and guidance needed to work through the problem properly along with putting back some of the love and romance that the relationship was first built on. It was then that a friend of mine told me about the new book by Amy Waterman Save My Marriage Today. To be honest this was a name I did not know and I thought I knew of most of the people writing on Love and Romance — and read their books.

If you know anything about me you would know I can be very sceptical of advertising words that promise a garden of roses without the occasional thorn stabbing you in the hand. As I reluctantly got into the Save My Marriage Today book I slowly realised that this was going to be different for the rest of the books.  

At last I had found a book I could share.  One I could put my name to without having to feel guilty at recommending something that only did half the job.

I believe this book would be really helpful for couples with marital difficulties. I don’t just mean just young couples either. This book applies to couples young and old. So I thought I would share this Save My Marriage Today book with you too.

Neither does it skirt over the hard problems it goes for the main issues. I have not come across any other book on how people can work on saving marriage by developing positive ways to interact together and strengthen their failing marriage relationship. Amy deals with topics such as:

What I liked about the Save My Marriage Today book is that it helps you to be able to identify where you have been going wrong, and shows you how to avoid those crucial mistakes that actually jeopardize your chances of saving your failing marriage. Yes it is true I frequently felt when reading other books on the subject they were recommending ideas I felt were guaranteed to destroy any chance of saving your marriage. This one in my view handles it the right way.

To be totally honest nothing can guarantee without fail that they can save a marriage but anyone seriously applying the techniques has a very good chance of doing so.

But don’t take my word for it, see if Save My Marriage Today can help save your marriage.

PS if you have a friend or relative who is experiencing these marriage problems buy them this book and save them the heartbreak and sense of failure being felt by so many who fail to save the marriage because they think it has gone too far already.

Ron Thomson Romantic Ideas product reviewer and romantic relationship coach

PS NOTE If you are serious about saving your marriage but do not think your marriage is yet in trouble I can seriously recommend another couple of books that can rekindle a flagging relationship. Both are by the same author who has written one for the female and one for the male.  See my review on them at the bottom of the page here

Ron has written for a number of years on romance and romantic ideas during that time the has reviewed a large number of books on the topic of romantic relationships. If you would like to recommend a particular book for review on these pages please write to him by going to RonsHelpDesk.co.uk.