Lovemaking and Intimacy Within A Romantic Relationship

5 Tips To Please Your Man In Bed

Want to give your man a thrilling experience like never before? Here are 5 really very simple ways that will make your lovemaking hotter, steamier and more passionate, starting tonight or even this afternoon if you both have the time!

1. The best position for his enjoyment

Almost every animal species on earth uses the rear-entry “doggy-style” position, so it is a natural one for us humans to enjoy as well. I fully admit I like to see the smile on Carol's face which this position does not allow so easily but there are so many other benefits. It’s great for us guys because it gives us full control. Also one of the best positions for hitting her G-spot and allows him to fondle her breasts, stomach, clitoris, back, neck and the other female sensual spots that can be stimulated at the same time.

The main benefit for your man is that he’ll be able to get incredibly deep penetration (above-average size guys need to be careful as deep hard thrusts might hit her cervix, which can be quite painful).

2. Find your man’s “hidden” zones

Yes, men love to be touched sensually too. I call these “hidden” zones because many people don’t realize, or forget, that these areas of the male body LOVE attention. While many of these zones are obvious, like the lips, groin, and inner thighs, there are also areas that, when stroked, caressed and kissed, can drive your partner wild and even intensify their orgasm. Believe it or not, the ears, neck, arms, chest and scalp are all really sensitive areas that love to be stimulated. We are planning to do a new article on these areas in the very near future watch out for it (but don't wait till then try finding out the rest now)

Spend some time during foreplay caressing and touching these areas, and watch how it pleases your partner.

3. Set a romantic mood

Think men aren’t romantic or wouldn’t appreciate it? Think again! Everyone loves a thoughtful and kind gesture. Of course you might think that using candles, music, incense and even rose petals to set the mood of your lovemaking is a little too “cliché.” But he’ll think differently! Your partner will LOVE YOU for this. Just imagine how happy you would feel if someone went to all the trouble to create a special lovemaking occasion that you can cherish for years to come. Could this be so “cliché” because people enjoy it so much? Point made.

4. Give him a hand job

When beginning a genital massage, start with lighter, irregular strokes – like teasing. As you get further and further into it, stick with two or three main strokes that your partner really enjoys. Developing a good rhythm that your partner can get into is the key to bringing your partner to orgasm with a genital massage.

5. Please your man with more oral sex

If I had to give you one piece of advice to make your lovemaking perfect, it would be: learn the art of fellatio. It’s true, all men love it. It feels great and actually takes a lot of trust and comfort to let somebody have their mouth down there.

In short, it’s an important part of lovemaking and is often the main event. Problem is, women often start fellatio by sucking on the penis straightaway when, actually, they should start with some playful teasing and soft touches. This will lead to a much more powerful orgasm as it heightens his anticipation. Make sure you use different techniques and your tongue, as well.

So there you have it. Five great ways to make your man more satisfied in the bedroom. While they’re all great, I would recommend putting most of your energy and time into learning fellatio, simply because men crave it so much and the loving smile and kisses you’ll probably get in return are definitely worth it.

This article is slightly adapted from an original by :

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb also the author of Blow by Blow: the complete guide to fellatio. Unfortunately, most women leave men frustrated and disappointed after fellatio. Learn to be one of the rare women who can satisfy him with oral sex. To learn more, visit: the how to give a blow job website.

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